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Thursday, June 16, 2011

Advanced Online Dating: How To Get Any Woman To Write Back



The first email that you send out to a woman is the most important part of the interaction. It's what either grabs her attention or doesn't. It also sets the tone for the rest of the correspondence. It determines whether the interaction with the woman you are emailing stops or continues.

You need to get this part right or you may as well give up right now. It doesn't matter how great your profile may be, how handsome your pics are, or how much money you make. If you can't keep her peak her curiosity and keep her attention long enough with your first email she won't bother writing back to you.

Most guys, who are using online dating sites to meet women, put hardly any thought into their introductory emails. They say next to nothing about themselves or the woman they're writing to. They don't say what it was about her profile that caught their eye, and if they do, it's probably something about her looks. They don't say why they think they might have a connection, what they might have in common, or what they're looking for and not looking for in a woman.

The first email doesn't need to be very long or elaborate. You just have to say something she doesn't hear very often. Something about her, about you, and why you think you two might have a connection.

And try to make it more than just a sentence or two. A paragraph is fine, but a few paragraphs are better.

And if you're thinking that this sounds like it might be too much work, well don't worry too much about that, because you can just write out one really great email and use it as a template for your other introductory emails.

If you can write out just one thoughtful, interesting, informative, and funny, personal introduction, and change just a few things in it based on her profile, you can send a great and unique first email to every woman that sparks your interest, using copy and paste.

Using this method can increase your response rate dramatically. But try not to tell anybody about it. You obviously can't tell the women you'll meet about it, because they'll feel like they've been duped, and if you tell your buddies about it, they'll start doing it too, and that'll ruin it for everybody.

Reference by : Damian_DeMarco
 

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